Hundreds of responses have come in revealing what instantly gives them the ick, including:
- "Never wanting to do anything. Me: 'Would you like to...' Her: 'No, that sounds boring.' Me: 'How about...?' Her: 'Nah, I don't want to do that.' Me: 'Ok, what would you like to do?' Her: 'IDK, whatever you want to do.'"
- "When women take zero initiative."
- "Assume they understand my intentions or motivations because they 'know how men think' or otherwise claim to be exceedingly perceptive or intuitive."
- "When you're talking to them and they reply, 'OMG that's so funny' while they're occupied with their phones, not laughing or even smiling."
- "Demand princess treatment, but don’t reciprocate anything. I can’t treat you like a queen if you don’t let me be your king. Entitlement is the turnoff. Someone acts entitled to your affection, time, or money while offering up little to nothing in return."
- "Gaslighting to think you're only wrong in every conversation"
- "Talks about all their past lovers."
- "Short, infrequent texts. Okay okay I get it, I’ll f**k off then. I’m not going to carry the relationship, and you’re clearly not head over heels."
- "Getting their relationship expectations from social media."
- "Not having goals or a sense of direction in life can be a turn-off for those who value ambition and drive."
- "Playing hard to get."
- "Being too concerned about their social media presence."
Source: Reddit