Let’s be real – a first date is about judging the other person. You want to figure out whether they have potential. To do that, you need to assess them, fully. What are they really taking a close look at? Daters are admitting the things they judge their first dates on.
- "Honestly? I look at shoes first. I probably read way too much into people's footwear choices. Music is a close second."
- "Hair. Definitely hair. I just can't with bad hair or no hair."
- "He has to have a great smile. If he doesn't, I judge him for that and immediately lose interest. It's a must for me. Besides, who doesn't have perfect teeth in 2025?"
- "I'll judge him by the location for the first date if he's picking the place. Olive Garden bar, for example … say what?"
- "I judge based on how they treat the wait staff.”
- "Maybe this presumes it's not exactly a first date, but my #1 judgment? His friends."
- "Their comfort level with the LGBTQ community, with me, my life, and my opinions."
- "I judge their sparkling personality, good looks, our immediate chemistry, and their hair."
- "Since I live in the city and we don't have cars, I can't really be concerned with that. But I am concerned about his shoes. Shoes say a lot about someone.”
- "I feel like I'm too old to date a guy who can't put together a good outfit, but too young to date someone who wears Dad Jeans, so I'm really picky. If I could make every guy dress like those boys on the J.Crew site, then I'd be really happy."
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Source: Your Tango